My heart is cock blocking me!

Cock block, dating without feelings, being in charge, dating with confidence,

I’ve decided my heart is a total cock-block.  Its cramping my style, ruining my game! I start dating someone, and the minute I develop any type of feeling around the guy he disappears.  How am I supposed to get my sexual needs met if these guys keep disappearing!?

I called Spice about this to discuss and she opened me to a whole new world.

She asked me “Why are you limiting yourself to one?  Why do you feel you need to tie feelings to the people you are in a sexual relationship with?”

Good question I thought.  Could I have a physical relationship with someone and not let my heart get involved?  Historically my heart and my vagina always had a direct connection.  How would I manage to keep my heart out of the equation?  I must admit the idea was appealing.  Having satisfying sexual experiences and not being tied to them in any other way sounded so much less vulnerable and I liked the idea of being in control.  Dating and sex without the risk of getting my heart broken?  Sign me up!

That was it.  I made a decision that I was going to separate the connection between my heart and my vagina so she (my vagina) would no longer cock-block me.  I was on a quest for “unemotional D”-dick that I could enjoy without any complications. No strings attached, witty banter, good conversation, fun dates, and super hot sex.  I’ve turned over a new leaf ladies and gentleman! No more feelings, this is about to get interesting.  I’m going to date in a whole new light, I’ll try some new dating sites, I”ll be cool calm and collected, no more feelings here, in fact, I’m going to keep my feelings out of it completely and let see how it goes…

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