Yep, you heard me right. I had a man drop the mic on my vagina. What does that mean you ask? It means I didn’t think it would ever be the same, no act could follow, it was so damn good surely nothing could ever top that, or so I thought when it was done.
I’m sure more than one person reading this can relate. Have you had that one person that blew your mind, worked you so well in the bedroom and out, hit every spot and made you explode over and over, only leaving you to think you will never be the same again, because no one can ever top that?
While that experience was amazing, its been a while since I’ve been with that man and I’m here to tell you the mic can be dropped by more than one person. While every experience is unique to that person that time in your life and will always remain special, just because you have experienced what you think is the best you have had yet, doesn’t mean you won’t have equally amazing experiences later. While that sex was some I’ll never forget, I have had amazing experiences since then that have blown my mind, helping me realize that there is more than one amazing partner out there.
Many of us find a quality that we like in someone and hold on to that thinking if we hang on tighter it won’t go away. I’ve heard SO many people say things like “but the sex is soooo good” as the excuse for why they keep going back when the relationship is otherwise unhealthy.
Step out of your comfort zone, and don’t limit yourself thinking you have surely had the best. There is so much out there to experience and you can do that with one person or multiple people but don’t ever think that there isn’t more than what you have already had.